Female soldiers d in the army?

I was about to call my recruiter and start the process of joining the reserve. Then I ran across this article all about of female soldiers. I googled. Now I am under the impression that all attractive females in the army are forced in one way or another to have ? I know I will hear allot of **** from my co-workers, and that is fine, I really don't give a crap about jokes or remarks, ive been dealing with it my whole life. But the idea of a commanding officer giving me orders to have with him is really quite scary. My top fear of joining before reading that article was being held as a POW and d by the enemy. I had never, ever considered that a soldier would another soldier. maybe its because I know so many exceptional and Truly wonderful and brave soldiers. maybe its because its a hush-hush situation. But Id like to know the truth. Is it as rampant as the article makes it seem? will I have to defend myself from one of my comrades? the thought is sincerely scary and as a decently attractive female I am completely re-thinking my motivation to join. Ladies, any input? Gentlemen? I had never even considered this as a concern before....