How can i stop feeling like i hate my currant b/f who i av bin wiv 4 4yrs?

i have bin wiv him 4 4yrs and we have bin off and on 4 a yr now i just cant live wiv him but then agen i cant live wiv out him wen im wiv him he makes me laught but he has no job and no muny to do thing wiv me i have a job and support us both i treat him but he dunt treat me i sum times feel like the man wiv everything he gets off me and he now and then makes my skin cruw coz of the way he is hes so lazy and im sick off it let me know wot u think